A 5-Day Embodied Retreat
White Skin,
White Masks
From social death to social rebirth: the construction — and the undoing — of whiteness. Not guilt work. Liberation work.
Whiteness was built, not born. What was built can be set down. Five days to see the water you swim in — and choose something truer.
Why This Work
A question almost no one asks
Most conversations about race ask white people to become better — kinder, more careful, more aware. This retreat asks something different, and more freeing.
Why subscribe
to whiteness
at all?
Whiteness is not biological. It was invented as a political category alongside slavery — a tool built to divide people who might otherwise have stood together, and to justify domination. Because it was constructed, it can be deconstructed. And because taking it up was, in the end, a kind of severing, there is something on the other side of setting it down.
Sociologist Orlando Patterson named slavery's deepest violence social death — the cutting of a person from ancestors, descendants, and community. This retreat asks the unasked question: what did whiteness sever in those who took it up? And what becomes possible when we choose, at last, to reconnect?
The Pivot
What did whiteness cost your lineage?
SEVERANCE.
Not a metaphor for someone else's history. A question for your own.
This is not about feeling bad. Guilt freezes you and keeps you at the center. We are after something else entirely — clear sight, and then choice.
The Journey
Five days, through the body
You will meet these ideas first through collage, movement, water, and breath — and only then as history and theory. The heaviness builds slowly, and only after you are resourced to hold it.
Construction
How identity is assembled. A collage of the self — and a quiet noticing of everything we discard to build the image we show the world.
The Water We Cannot See
Privilege as the medium we swim in without noticing. An introduction to social death — and the turning of the lens: what did whiteness cost your lineage?
The Architecture
Honest historical education, held inside a strong container. Not the distant past — a line that reaches your own feet.
Shadow
Working with what was cast off. The discarded returns — and reveals its meaning, and its power.
Rebirth
Grief for what assimilation erased. Celebration of real heritage in its true specificity. A closing water ceremony of release and recommitment.
How We Work
Metaphors you can feel
Each practice lets you experience a construct in the body before you ever name it in the mind.
The Two Collages
A bright self built from chosen pieces — and later, the shadow made from everything set aside. A living demonstration of how identity, and whiteness itself, gets assembled.
Fish in Water
The medium you cannot see until someone names it. A felt encounter with privilege as environment rather than opinion. "The readiness was constant and invisible, the way water is invisible to the fish."
The Snow Globe
Contained, yet invisible from within. Shaken from outside, the chaos is inside — but the glass holds. The experience of a world you mistook for the whole world.
Water & Steam
Release as something cyclical, not linear. What the body carried can move through, and out.
Grounded in Scholarship
Rigorous, not improvised
Not a citation wall. These aren't endorsements — they're the ingredients the retreat is built from.
Who This Is For
For those ready to stop managing whiteness
- People who have done some racial-justice or somatic work and feel the limits of the cognitive, workshop-only approach.
- Those willing to be uncomfortable in service of something real — and to let discomfort be a teacher, not an emergency.
- Anyone tired of the guilt-and-shame cycle and looking for a way through rather than a way to feel briefly better.
- Practitioners, educators, and leaders who want to step outside the construct — not merely behave more carefully inside it.
How You'll Be Held
Depth requires safety
This is challenging inner work, and it is carefully contained. You are never asked to go anywhere you are not supported to go.
Beyond the Week
The retreat is the beginning
You leave with a 30-day integration guide, an accountability pod formed before you go, and a live circle six weeks on. The work is designed to take root in your ordinary life — small, repeatable, and relational — not to fade as one transformative week recedes.
Not smashed. Not hidden. Set down — because the thesis was never violent self-destruction. It was always a choice.
Take the First Step
Request an invitation
Places are limited, and this work asks that people arrive ready. Reach out to begin the conversation and receive dates, location, and details.
Begin the Conversation
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